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How to Deliver Bad News to a Group

shock How to Deliver Bad News to a GroupDelivering bad news to a group is never an enjoyable experience for any leader. Yet unfortunately in today’s environment, it’s a task that falls on our shoulders all too often.  While established techniques for delivering bad news exist, it’s often difficult to find training on disseminating negative information in the group setting. Personally, in the various management training and leadership programs I’ve been involved with over the years; it’s an area that has barely been touched upon!

Difficult conversations and delivering a negative message remain a challenge for many new leaders and this one is no exception. To this day, my previous post on managing conflict remains one of the most viewed posts on this site. Clearly the disconnect in training and execution is evident, but it doesn’t alleviate the fact that managers are continually seeking guidance in this area.

Thanks to a tip from a friend (@JonBuehner) and the insight of author/executive coach Kevin Daley, the following is an abbreviated version of a four-part plan on how to deliver bad news to a group.  Kevin is clearly spot on in stating,

“No matter how skillfully you announce bad news, it’s likely to cause anxiety, result in at least a temporary drop in productivity, and prompt some of your valued employees to look for work elsewhere.”

So, how can you deliver bad news in a way that minimizes the damage?

1. Do it as soon as possible. Bad news travels faster than a space shuttle. Until an official announcement is made, there will be wild speculation by your employees. Head off the rumors quickly. Speaking up asap will let you define exactly what’s happening and accurately describe its implications. At the same time, you’ll earn points by showing that you’re in charge and are being forthright.

2. Speak candidly. Tell the employees everything that can be told. If you don’t yet know the full extent of the impending change, say so. If time goes by and there’s nothing new to announce, say there isn’t any new news, so you avoid creating an anxiety-feeding information vacuum.

3. Give them the big picture. Begin the presentation by giving context — but do it quickly. Too much background up front can make you look insecure about getting to the bad news itself. If you played a part in what went wrong, or took part in a decision that will be painful for the employees to hear, admit it.

4. Plan for questions. An otherwise excellent presentation can be undermined with an awkward handling of the Q&A. Anticipate the questions you’re likely to be asked and be ready for them with concise and credible answers. Adapt them for the particular audience you’re addressing.

For the complete background of his plan, visit Kevin’s column on the Harvard Business Blog.

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The Best Ways to Communicate with Gen-Y

comunicate geny The Best Ways to Communicate with Gen YToday’s guest post is from Kyle Ryman of ProfessionalLEADER.com.

Do you have Generation Y in your organization? You probably do, and that means that you will have to, at one point or another, have to get a hold of them at some point in time. But how will you do it? Look through these 4 different ways to find the best way of getting a hold of the tech savvy Generation Y.

1. Social Networking Sites

You will want to use social networking sites if you have a short to medium length message, that will be sent to one or a handful of people, and it will need to be read or responded to relatively quickly.

What is great about them:

  • They check these sites multiple times a day.
  • It is easy for them to access and respond to your message.

What sucks about them:

  • You can’t send attachments.
  • Lack of formatting options keeps your message length relatively short.
  • It is hard to easily communicate with more than a handful of people.
  • You not only have to be on the same social network, but you also have to be their “friend.

2. Text Messages

You will want to use text messages if you have a very short and direct message, that will be sent to one or a handful of people, and it needs to be read or responded to extremely quickly.

What is great about them:

  • Text messages are easy to respond to, even while in class…
  • Their phone will notify them as soon as they receive one.
  • You can be almost certain they will receive your message.

What sucks about them:

  • You can only use this for short, direct, messaging.
  • You are hard pressed to contact large groups.
  • It costs you money…

3. E-mails & List Servs

You will want to use e-mails and list servs if you have a medium to long message, which will be sent to any sized audience, and it needs to be read or responded to within the next few days.

What is great about them:

  • You can send longer, more detailed messages.
  • You can send attachments.
  • They normally check their personal e-mail at least once per day (more with a smart phone).
  • Emails and list servs make it easier for you to contact large groups.

What sucks about them:

  • They don’t check this as much as they do their social networking sites.
  • If you don’t send to their personal e-mail, then good luck.
  • There is a “slight” risk of their spam filter filtering you…

4. Phone Calls

You will want to use phone calls only if your message is too complex to be expressed any other way, i.e. you have got to talk to them.

What is great about them:

  • Phone calls are a very dynamic medium.
  • You actually know whether or not they got, and understood, your message.

What sucks about them:

  • You can only contact one person at a time.
  • They probably won’t pick up, for whatever reason…
  • They will not listen to any voice mails that you send. Or, at least not any time soon.

The Key for You…

…is matching medium to message. You have got to know what kind of message you are sending, what timeframe they need to respond in, and how many people you will be sending it to. If you take those three things into consideration and match them to the appropriate communication channel, then you will stand a much better chance at getting a hold of your Generation Yers.

My Question to You:

When you have to get a hold of Generation Y, how do you do it?

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Kyle Ryman is a guest contributor and author of ProfessionalLEADER.com. He is a second lieutenant in the U.S. Army (infantry), and a recent graduate of Texas A&M University with a B.A. in History, Minor in Communications, and Certificate in Leadership Development and Study.

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Are You a Good Communicator? Teleseminar Opportunity: February 12, 2009

leadership communication 300x136 Are You a Good Communicator? Teleseminar Opportunity: February 12, 2009

When it comes to being an effective leader, there is no substitute for having strong communication skills. Time and time again this topic comes up in discussion, being that most people believe that they are better communicators than they really are. Fortunately for those looking to improve in this area, leadership guru Kevin Eikenberry and conflict resolution specialist Guy Harris are teaming up to provide some direction in the area of creating dialogue and improving communication effectiveness.

During this 60 minute teleseminar Kevin and Guy will speak to:

  • The difference between real dialogue and mutual monologue
  • What it means to talk how the other person wants to hear
  • Why you need to “tune in” for communication effectiveness
  • The difference between task orientation and people orientation and how to talk with one another instead of at each other
  • How the Ultimate Discovery System can positively impact your communications

Add in a robust Q&A (not to mention the fact that Kevin has been kind enough to pick up the $57 tab) and you have an excellent opportunity to enhance your communication skills free of charge. I have a feeling that this will be well worth it. Registration details are below.

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Thursday, February 12, 2009 • 2:00pm EST • Cost: Free!

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So You’ve Just Become a Manager – Now What?

frustratedman So You’ve Just Become a Manager – Now What?

As soon as the jubilation from your promotion subsides, it hits you – “What do I do now?” The training is over, everyone says you’re ready, yet all of a sudden you are responsible for a number of employees and not even sure where to begin. Don’t worry, you’re not alone. Over the next few weeks, I will be writing a number of posts in a series entitled, “So You’ve Just Become a Manager,” highlighting the keys to making the transition a successful one.

To further examine this process, I’ve spent the past few months interviewing a number of top managers and directors here at J&J as to their first steps when moving into a management role for the first time. Though each had their own individual thoughts and style as to how they approached the transition, there were many suggestions that became consistent in each. Interestingly enough, many of the suggestions focus on self-management, versus managing ones subordinates during this period.

Though the future posts will provide greater detail, I thought I’d kick off the series with a brief overview of the highlights.  The following are the 10 most common tips from some of the best in the business…

  1. Monitor your work hours.
    Set time limits to your work hours and stick to them. When you’re in a new position it’s very easy to get sucked into working longer and longer hours because you feel you have to. Resist the urge to consistently stay late. One of the worst things that can happen is burning out too early, if this happens, it will be hard to jumpstart your passion for the role, not to mention your employees will take notice.
  2. Set up processes early.
    Be conscious of your time - Now that you are managing other people, you will be pulled in multiple directions at any given moment.  Begin to formalize a schedule of when you handle routine administrative tasks. (ex. approve expense reports every Monday, budget meetings on Thursdays) Whatever your particular role entails, begin to get a grasp of your time demands and build a routine to fit.
  3. Establish trust early.
    You might feel there is pressure to push for results early in your new role. Again, resist the urge. Take the time to get to know your people individually and as a team. What do they need and what do they expect from you. What are their strengths and weaknesses? What are their goals and ambitions? If they don’t tell you, ask. Establishing trust clearly takes time, but starting off on the right foot shows that you have their best interests in mind. When your employees trust you and want to work for you, the results will come sooner than you think.
  4. Set clear expectations.
    This should include everything from your expectations for their administrative activities to your vision for the team. Doing this early on aligns your vision with the group and the individual players. Once everyone has a clear picture of your expectations, the next question naturally becomes, “How do we get there?”
  5. Communicate, communicate, communicate.
    This means regular meetings with both your team members & your direct manager. Clear expectations raise the bar, but frequent communication holds everyone to them.
  6. Give praise and recognition regularly.
    Reinforcement of a job well done is one of the cheapest and most impactful motivational tools at your disposal.  Making the effort to show you see and appreciate the little things can make the difference between a positive action being repeated or forgotten.
  7. Focus on what is important, not just what is urgent.
    This applies to managing up as well as down. Take the time to speak with your manager about the most critical issues they see for you in your role. Be clear as to the expectations from both sides and keep these in mind at all times.
  8. Learn to delegate.
    Failure to delegate is the most common failing point of new leaders. For managers, there are two key aspects to successful delegation:
    - Having people to whom one can delegate, and
    - Selecting the most appropriate tasks to delegate
    Not only does delegation take things off your plate, but when done properly, delegation will foster the “initiative to take action” so that your people learn to develop their skills and knowledge to their full potential.
  9. Continue to build your network.
    Just because you’ve been promoted doesn’t mean you have to stop networking. Now more than ever the importance of networking and building coalitions will become apparent. Not only are you setting yourself up for personal success, but a strong network enables you to better help your employees. Everyone inside or outside your direct area of business provides value.
  10. Find a mentor.
    No good manager does it alone. Find someone who is or has been a successful “people” manager. Without a doubt, the most successful managers have told me that they have one person or a group of people that they often consult when faced with a new challenge. Meet or talk regularly with them to discuss your issues, challenges and ways that you can learn and develop.

There were many more powerful tips that I will undoubtedly talk about throughout the series, but these jumped out as some of the most prevalent. If you have a crucial step that was left off, feel free to add it as a comment and I will gladly work it into future posts.

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Top 7 Pointers for Email Etiquette

 Top 7 Pointers for Email EtiquetteOn a conference call last week it was said that J&J employees send over 1 million emails per month.  Without a doubt, email is a cornerstone of doing business today. Now more than ever, your email etiquette is important in communicating effectively and efficiently. Below are 7 sure-fire tips to think about for the next time you sit down to send off an email:

Make sure “email” is appropriate.

  • Email may be quick and easy, but it’s definitely not the proper medium for every message. Consider a live call if your topic is emotional or controversial, your recipient may misinterpret your thoughts if presented on email. Sensitive or private subject? Never forget how easy it is to hit “forward,” not to mention the fact that your message will be sitting somewhere in cyberspace for years to come.

Use the subject line properly.

  • Your “subject” line needs to be meaningful and on point if you want get the readers attention.  For example: “Action required:” or “Response requested:” grab attention. Avoid a using a generic subject, such as “Hi”, or worse, not using one at all. These messages will be either ignored or relegated to the bottom of the inbox. By leaving the subject blank, you also make it harder for your recipient to find it should they need it later.

Get the name right.

  • If you are unsure of the spelling of the recipient’s name or how he/she prefers to be addressed, take the time to find out. Nothing kicks off a great business relationship quite like using the wrong name… it’s worth the extra minute.

Get to the point.

  • Emails are not the place for writing your autobiography or a novel. Be respectful of other people’s time by being as brief and as concise as possible. Additionally, with the popularity of the BlackBerry, no one wants to spend 10 minutes scrolling through an email, it will quickly be ignored.

Limit Forwards.

  • Instead of forwarding an entire string of emails, if at all possible, cut and paste pertinent information onto a new email. This saves the reader from reading through multiple forwards to find the info they want.

Proofread. Proofread. Proofread.

  • Check for grammar, punctuation and spelling errors. Especially check for subject-verb agreement and run-on sentences which are the most common errors. There’s really no excuse for them anymore - Outlook has a setting that requires “spell-check” before it will send message. Use it.

Business email is for business… only.

  • With the ease of setting up a Gmail account, you would think this would be a no brainer! Only use your company e-mail for business purposes and only use your personal e-mail when on your own time. Think before you type and think again before you send. If you don’t, HR could do the thinking for you…

Have one you’d like to add to the list? Let’s hear it - Add a comment!

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